nonyahbusiness asked:


STFU- Shut The Freak Up [ you can also subsitute "Freak" for something rhyming with buck]

Like when you caught the soon to be ex doing something (or someone) he/she absolutely said he/she wasn’t doing and this helped your case big time.

Or proved to the soon to be ex-in-laws what a scum/skank their child really is. Bonus if the ex-inlaws then started siding with you!

Or you make allot of money with some deal that the soon to be ex always said was stupid and never wanted to do.

Or you won the lottery the day after the divorce was final, etc, etc, etc

Efrain Kline

JODI F asked:


THE CHILD IS IN JOINT CUSTUDY RIGHT NOW BUT THE FATHER WAS JUST BROUGHT UP ON DRUG CHARGES AND HAS BEEN KICKED OUT OF HIS HOME HE IS MOVING AROUND BETWEEN A FEW HOMES CHILD NEEDS A STABLE HOME AND W/ THE MOTHER SHE WOULD GET IT BOTHE MOTHER AND STEP FATHER WORK BUT NOT ENOUGH TO GET A LAWYER TO HELP

Alycia Alexander

duckies asked:


im a step parent and my step child has been trying to contact the other parent for about 3 months. he has only spoke to his mom about 4 times since the summer in which he was returned a month and a half early, since mom had to move. he has left voice mails called the cousins house in which she was supposed to be staying only to get a busy signal each time. now moms phone is stating it isn’t taking calls at the moment. hubby sent email to other parent stating that contact info needs to be updated as custody order states and she replies ill hit him up in a month. child is upset and acting out.

Raven Mendez

Patricia L asked:


In desperate need of help!!! My husband and I just got a call from my stepson (my husbands son)’ s school. Apparently our son’s “birth” mother went to the school and allowed him to get signed out of high school so that he can go to night school. We went to see the principal this morning and he let him back into the school. He is failing and played hooky for 24 days. We now have to go to hearing through the board of Ed to find out if he will be left back. We will do what we have to do but long story short. Our child’s birth mother had no right to sign him out of school. Our son’s primary residence is with us not her!! Legally what can we do? My husband is so upset. We want to call her and tell her we will no longer be sending the kids to see her on Wednesdays any longer. If we do this, is that considered kidnapping? Legally we don’t want to get in any trouble but we have had enough! What would happen if we refuse her the visitations?

Thank you so much for any help and advice!!!

Brooks Rush

ProbablyME asked:


during our divorce/custody trial my soon to be ex wife has claimed domestic violence. she has left our kids several times during their lives and i believe is trying to use a false claim of DV as an excuse why. we have never had any police involvement, no calls, no interventions, nothing. no restraiing orders, no pictures, nobody testified to any abuse during before or after any incidents she claimed.

i have had some sort of custody since 2003 but we have been going through this divorce for about one year. our case is in the judge’s hands and it will probably be a couple of weeks before we have a final decision. can the judge find me guilty of DV with no evidence? can she just arbitrarily just find that i am guilty of that thus taking my kids away because of a false allegation?
there is no witnesses, no police reports, no hospital records, nothing like that; just her allegations.

Julianne Chandler

Frustrated asked:


My wife and I have been separated for 2.5 years. We reconciled after the initial sep. and do not have a temporary. order It was discovered while we were trying to reconcile that another man was involved and spending nights with her in our marital home. Private Investigators confirmed our suspicions. My ex-wife to be continues to deny the relationship despite reams of evidence, which includes GPS Tracking logs, and other proof. She is charged with Adultery and Marital Fraud. She is currently flaunting the relationship while at the same time refusing to settle the situation. We rec’d answers to discovery that are confirmed to be untruthful. We can prove that she has encumbered marital property. They have refused to make any offers to settle the situation. Meetings have been scheduled by them for the purpose of settling it, but they never showed up. There is a large marital estate involved and the case is in SC.

Billy Leon

ProbablyME asked:


i currently have temporary custody during a divorce case. divorce proceedings have been going on for 10 months. mother has been gone almost 2 years i have had custody throughout. i filed proper paperwork for move in march, my 90 days (legally have to give that much notice) are up but my ex’s lawyer has delayed things so much that it has now been almost 150 days since i filed.

i (and my children) moved in with my mother and her husband about 5 months after my ex left and have been living there ever since. my mother is now getting a divorce and has left the residence (about 5 months ago). i had always planned to move once the school year was up which is why i filed as early as i did.

the problem is that my step father wants us out. he is making it very difficult and wants us out asap. i have talked to several people (lawyers, therapist, and even a former judge) who believe that i will be allowed to move (distance isn’t that far, but is out of state) but if i leave before actually getting permission from a judge i am afraid i might lose my children.

i have no viable option where we currently are, and where i proposed to move (with my girlfriend) there is plenty of space and opportunity and my kids want to move. my ex would never be granted custody from a judge as everything stands now, but i have no choice but to move and i am scared that she might be granted custody out of default. what should i do? should i try to tell the judge before i do it? we have a mediation planned in a week but i doubt she will agree to let me move no matter what. i am afraid and worried for my kids and myself. any advice would be helpful…
the ex left us to move in with the guy she is currently with and didnt even speak to the kids (except a couple times) for almost a year. she even showed up with him at our first hearing.

i slowly incorporated my gf into my kids lives. my ex and i have been separated almost 2 years and i plan to be with my current gf hopefully for the rest of my life (i know everyone says that).
its not being able to afford to live on my own. i could be able to in a couple of months, its the time. between bills and paying my attorney and regular stuff for the kids there is no money available RIGHT NOW for deposit, first/last month rent, etc.

my gf and i just got a bigger place to prepare for our merging families which also cost money. i filed very early so that i gave myself enough time to prepare no matter what the court decided and without my consent the lawyers have continually rescheduled and rescheduled.

school starts very soon and i am up against a wall with mostly time, not money.
nothing in writing saying i cant move.

she never gave me a written response in the 60 days like she was suppose to, but my lawyer told me that didnt matter since all issues were on the table and we are technically going through the divorce, but other lawyers told me that wasnt true so i dont know.

Claudia Figueroa

Dave R asked:


Last year on Sept 01, 07 my son announced to his mother he does not want to live with her anymore. He is now 13. He has lived with her since the divorce of 5 years ago. Since the divorce she has not been ammicable towards me. My son has played ice hockey and roller hockey and baseball. he doesn’t play them anymore because of her lack of support. she is mentaly abusive to him and keeps him from me. I only see him under the divorce visitation days and times. He has begged her to let him go. She treats him like “an old pair of shoes in the back of a closet that no one wants to wear” (his own words). I have emails gallore on how bad it is there and needs to get out. She forced him to light fireworks then ridiculed him when he refused because he was affraid. He ran away to the police to have them get me. The judge is pushing the case asside in wanting social worker after psychologist gallore interview all. This is costing close to 25k and I can’t take it anymore!! Niether can my son. “NJ”

Angelina Armstrong

adeleye o asked:


it is now common practice that every little problems between husband and wife is been settled in court of divorce than families of marriage couples. this is a bad tradition we are laying for our children.
families of husband and wife know more of their wards behaviour, since they were the ones that brought them up before they become husband and wife.Also both must have moved for many years, during these periods they would have known eachother dos and dons before deciding to be husband and wife. Therefore there must be an understanding between them before going into marriage. these are avenues both should have exploit not to file papers for divorce.

Maximus Lancaster

ChaCha the Diva asked:


Both parents are 18. They had a temporary order that has expired for the visitation, but I guess not the child support. The father has been kept from seeing his infant son for four months nor has he had any communication with the mother (she wont answer letters or phones), but he has been paying child support up until last month. He also pays all the health care benefits. He has the support, but has kept it in an account until he is able to communicate with the mother or will bring it to mediation. The father is in the military, stationed within 150 miles from the child. Should he hire an attorney or wait til after mediation? She has a really nasty one.

Alfred Alston