Jan 26
junkmail asked:
This Friday is the bench trial for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order- this is the second one in four years that my adult daughter has filed. The first was dismissed for lack of merit. Her current allegations are way off the charts since I have had little to no contact since the first one. O.K.- to my question… are judges prudent when granting DVROs or do
they hand them out like candy on Halloween? I am pro per in California. Any experiences?
I thought I might add that it is and never was an issue of physical abuse. She is claiming that I intend to kidnap my grandson. Charming daughter, isn’t she? She and my grandson lived with me while she earned her college degree. I supported both of them. It was actually a great time. Perhaps she is resentful because her child bonded with me and not her. Not my fault- she was rarely there. Like I stated earlier, there has been very little contact- NONE of which has been face to face.
And I have NEVER even so much as implied an intent to abduct my grandson. Where would I take him? To my secret villa in Spain? The singular deed for which I DO accept accountability is sending a small family photo album to my grandson. This was after my father passed away. I did not want my grandson to forget his family- the family that he adored and the family that was taken from him on a malicious whim. FYI- In giving this photo album, there was NO physical or verbal contact with my grandson. He is now 12 years old.
Brad Ayers
This Friday is the bench trial for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order- this is the second one in four years that my adult daughter has filed. The first was dismissed for lack of merit. Her current allegations are way off the charts since I have had little to no contact since the first one. O.K.- to my question… are judges prudent when granting DVROs or do
they hand them out like candy on Halloween? I am pro per in California. Any experiences?
I thought I might add that it is and never was an issue of physical abuse. She is claiming that I intend to kidnap my grandson. Charming daughter, isn’t she? She and my grandson lived with me while she earned her college degree. I supported both of them. It was actually a great time. Perhaps she is resentful because her child bonded with me and not her. Not my fault- she was rarely there. Like I stated earlier, there has been very little contact- NONE of which has been face to face.
And I have NEVER even so much as implied an intent to abduct my grandson. Where would I take him? To my secret villa in Spain? The singular deed for which I DO accept accountability is sending a small family photo album to my grandson. This was after my father passed away. I did not want my grandson to forget his family- the family that he adored and the family that was taken from him on a malicious whim. FYI- In giving this photo album, there was NO physical or verbal contact with my grandson. He is now 12 years old.
Brad Ayers
One Response to “Are most Family Court judges prudent when granting Restraining Orders?”
January 26th, 2010 at 2:21 pm
The first one and you were recently living together since then im assuming they will probably deny it again just know that if you havent lived together since then im assuming they will probably deny it has been.
The first one and you were recently living together they hand those out like candy if you were recently living together since then im assuming they will probably deny it has been long time it has been long time it.
The same roof because they hand those out like candy if you were recently living together since then im assuming they didnt grant without.